I’ve (28f) been talking to this guy (29m) for around three months. We arent official and havent slept together.
So far chemistry is amazing, we connect on so many levels.
However I noticed a few things early on. Since the first time we went out, he questioned me, asking if I was talking to/flirting with other guys. When I said no I got a “good keep it like that”.
Then he also does this thing when I mention guy friends or coworkers I talk to. He sucks in a breath and has to literally look the other way. I can see his face all scrunched up.
He’ll also rub his eyes really hard and look down, like he can’t even look at me? He really has to compose himself when he gets jealous, which seems like he does very easily.
Another thing he does, the biggest one, is glare straight at guys I talk to. It’s a challenging look like he’s ready to fight them. He will even come and put his arm around my waist. These are guys we both know, who are friends of friends.
I’ve never encountered this before and it seems like he’s doing his best to control his anger/jealousy. He’s never directly gotten angry with me. But is this too much? Too many red flags?