u/Chelsxo101 — reddlx

So I (21F) and my friends (21F and 20M) used to be a trio and we used to hangout frequently, ive known them both for about 3 years now. But I've always noticed it's always been them two hanging out a lot more than me which I understand since they are together but for the past year, I've noticed they barely ask me to hang out and it's always me or another mutual friend asking them to hangout. I understand they're together and need time together but it would be nice to be included and from time to time rather than me always asking them to hangout. I've tried pulling away and they didn't ask to hangout for months, so it just feels they don't wanna see me? Occasionally ill ask questions in the group chat and get ignored or my private messages get ignored for hours/days. It really sucks and it's upsetting me but I feel I can't bring anything up as when I did last time I felt the friend (21F) was quite dismissive and she then ignored me for a week or two and it upset me even more. Can I please have advice on if this is normal and what I should do?

So I (21F) and my friends (21F and 20M) used to be a trio and we used to hangout frequently. But I've always noticed it's always been them two hanging out a lot more than me which I understand since they are together but for the past year, I've noticed they barely ask me to hang out and it's always me or another mutual friend asking them to hangout. I understand they're together and need time together but it would be nice to be included and from time to time rather than me always asking them to hangout. I've tried pulling away and they didn't ask to hangout for months, so it just feels they don't wanna see me? Occasionally ill ask questions in the group chat and get ignored or my private messages get ignored for hours/days. It really sucks and it's upsetting me but I feel I can't bring anything up as when I did last time I felt the friend (21F) was quite dismissive and she then ignored me for a week or two and it upset me even more. Can I please have advice on if this is normal and what I should do?