u/Chelovechky

Help me (21M) understand this please.

In my uni city, there is a girl and I find her attractive, physically, emotionally, and in character. I haven't talked to her much, and that is partly my fault. Basically, I heard her talking about me (she was literally describing my situation, lol, for like 30 minutes while I was studying in the same library room), and she did say I was shy as hell, but nothing outright negative. Whenever I see her, she is really cold, and if you add my social anxiety to the mix, it becomes very uncomfortable for me. Usually, I just say a few words or something. Basically, I don't know what to do. The girl I like likes talking about me, but whenever we meet, she is cold, and I am shy. She knows I am shy with girls and barely talk to them. Don't want to lie on Reddit lol.

I am about to graduate uni in a few months and maybe I need some encouragement. Not maybe....

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u/Chelovechky — 4 days ago