u/Chef_11_Jeff

Me and my boyfriend were talking over text about how I was worried about past SA in my childhood. ( I have a lot of signs of past SA but can’t remember anything, but I was left with untrustworthy people) He kept saying brb and leaving for 30 minutes at a time. I asked why and he was playing a game with his friends and that’s why he kept leaving. I understand that he was playing before, but I wouldn’t have talked about it or brought it up if he was busy and couldn’t have a full conversation about it. Even though we are in a serious relationship, lately he’s been choosing his friends over me a lot since we were gonna move away from them. I’ve also had problems with him leaving very serious convos before to talk to them. I addressed my feelings about this and he felt he kept going back and forth between acting like he did nothing wrong and apologizing. After he apologized once he said “omg I left for 30 minutes it’s a sin I’m so sorry.” I’ve also had issues addressing problems with him and him believing it’s really an issue. It took him months to realize he was choosing a lot of other things in his life over me and he promised he’d listen and not do anything like that again. We’ve been dating around 2.5 years and he didn’t used to act like this. We were planning to move in together, but have put that off because of issues. AIO for being upset about this and thinking of ending things?