AITAH for starting a fight with my friend over our other friends current struggles
So i was talking with my best friend and she mentioned how our friend (lets call her kiwi) is “lying” to us
For context kiwi said she recently got kicked out of her home after she had a fight with her mother and yesterday she told me how she’s probably going to a group home for teens because of that with her mom and since her mom has been hitting her for a while and she filed a police report against her for said abuse and how her little sister is gonna go to her father whos probably gonna get full custody
If im being honest im glad if shes gonna get out of there because first i do believe shes getting hit and im pretty sure her and her sister are getting neglected too
My friend then started shit talking kiwi about how shes lying for attention and how her mother would never hit her because she “knows” her and she also “knows” that kiwi lies all the time and then said how she would love to punch kiwi in the face for “doing these terrible things to her mother”
But i KNOW damn well that kiwi would never sit for like 4 hours in the police station if she was just actually lying for attention
This whole thing is just her victim blaming kiwi and saying shes being dramatic and how her mother never did anything wrong so i told my friend that she doesn’t know whats going on in their home and just because she met her mother once or twice doesn’t mean that shes nice to her daughters and since kiwi is pretty much allowed to do what ever substance or drug she wants without her mother caring all that much just tells me her mother doesn’t actually give a fuck
And now me and my best friend are fighting because I shouldn’t believe kiwi and shes just lying and im falling right for it