Hello! (✿^‿^)
To give a bit of info about me, I am 34, love fantasy and sci fi books, video games, enjoy getting into arts and crafts, mushrooms/foraging/hiking and IT/networking/security. Just about anything I can probably yap forever about. I ahve way too many hobbies than is sane. I'm passionate about everything but also love learning and getting new perspectives.
I'm medium slim build around size 10 and make a lot of effort to take care of my appearance and fitness. I do have a certain expectation of the same/finding you attractive to be super blunt.
I prefer less crowded and quiet spaces, I'm like a crappy old console that cant render super busy spaces.
What I give and want to receive is someone affectionate, passionate about their interests, open to being challenged and constructive debates, and constantly wanting to improve and be their best self. I am pretty available in terms of my time/availability to spend time within a relationship (dating casually/non exclsuive sorry I'm not going to make you my priority and will keep dating around and assume you do the same until we have a conversation about it)
I have a rich inner world and many hobbies to keep myself busy when apart so not hyper co-dependant as I think that brings in more interest for when we come together.
I am childfree by choice and seeking someone who also does not want kids. I really want to find the right person not the "right now" person. So happy to take it slow and be selective as I have no interest/clock ticking to have a family, or any rush for marriage ect.
Absolutely no interest in poly, ENM whatever type situations or if you're a sex addicted, porn rotted gooner. Don't think I won't figure that out either.
I am a terminal lover girl and am seeking someone I can pour myself into fully, connect intellectually, share passions and experiences. Sex and physical affection is very important to me in a relationship but I don't enjoy that without intimacy/connection.
Also I don't love dogs. I like dogs in concept but the smell and jumping all over me is super off-putting sorry dog dads.
As a lover of jokes and bad puns I'll sign off with a joke
A duck goes to the pharmacy and buys a tube of chapstick. The cashier says “cash or card?”.
“Neither. Just put it on my bill"
And yes I am very blunt to an extent it's usually seen as rude and fussy if you don't like it I'm not the one