How will I (F23) know if my boyfriend (M23) is secured with our relationship or he is already losing interest?
My boyfriend and I had a fight because he cancelled our plan last minute. I was just disappointed and he told me that he got my point and said sorry.
He told me in a nice way that we don’t have to spend our time together often. He explained that I can do anything I want as long as I just keep him updated. I am overthinking things because we used to hang out a lot during our first months together and now we’re suddenly transitioning to this?
I don’t expect him to spend time with me after his work every Monday to Friday because I want him to rest and do his own thing. We usually just talk 1-2 hours a day to talk about our day and watch our favorite series during Sundays.
We meet once or twice every weekdays because we take the same route going to work/school. I tell him if our schedules match and sometimes he is the one who offers to give me a ride. Sometimes we plan to visit a mall or doing a short errands together before going home. But I think our last formal date was on Valentine’s day this year.
I won’t deny that it kinda feels boring because of less time together. I am also considering that it’s just my brain trying to tell me something’s wrong even there’s none. We are the total opposite since my boyfriend is used to being chill while me is full of doubts and worries.
Do you think he just wants to enjoy his individuality and suggests me to do the same while still being in a relationship? Or he’s really not into me anymore like before?