Hows ur experience on matrimony?
Asking for a relative.
36M, in the AM market since 2 yrs. Seeking prospects through matrimonial sites, brokers, dating apps, relatives, and friends. To say that his experience has been disappointing.
women ghosting, no response, high salary expectations, height looks expectations, weird questions, unnecessary demands, etc. In an age when technology is making a lot of thing easier, finding a partner has actually become difficult.
Asked a girl ( relative)
Profile - 32F, Working, Teacher Private, Delhi, 5'4" Fair, Earning 6-7 LPA, Average looking.
She said she got 500+ interests in a few weeks.
Most of them making 25LPA
1 Was AIIMS doctor.
10 NRIs making 10 CRORE+
Around 20 men working in FAANG making 60LPA+
She was confused about who to pick.
= Is 25LPA and handsome / full hair / Gym body bare minimum even for average girl
= Does average man has a chance
= Is men's worth reduced to a wallet or looks as females only see salary and 1 profile pic and accept. Even if a man is decent if he is earning less than 20LPA or is not handsome/short/ balding he won't even get response from women her level.
= Why are so many handsome rich successful men going after average girls.
= Does <25LPA for men means you are poor and undeserving of marriage. Even unemployed, less educated girls demand 15/20LPA salary nowadays. Plus he needs to be tall muscular and attractive also.
They are okay to sit at home and remain unmarried and die alone but will never lower their standards.