u/Character-Egg-8395

Question to older guys

Would you date someone younger who has a mild disability/medical condition?

I (27) have something called essential tremor, which makes my hands a bit shaky. Some days are better, some worse. Usually its manageable, but sometimes I drop or spill things, and it makes me feel awkward and embarrassed. Im still trying to find the right medication with my neurologist.

I also been accused of being an alcoholic way too many times, even though I dont drink at all. That honestly destroyed a lot of my confidence and sometimes makes me feel useless.

One of my biggest worries is that it could progress in the future and that I wouldnt be able to properly help or take care of an older partner if needed.

Just wondering how older guys would honestly feel about this.

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u/Character-Egg-8395 — 6 days ago