Casual sex…how???
Hi — I’m just curious about how folks have initiated casual sex. I’ve had sex in romantic relationships, but I’m at a point in my life where I’m seriously too busy to date, and I’d never want to say I could commit to a relationship and then not show up. Casual sex (and dating — I’d just like to plan and pay for one with a nice girl every once in a while) is all I can do.
My best friend is gay and has explained Grindr to me, and even though it seems like a hellscape, I’m envious of the app’s accessibility to sex and wish there was something like that for Gen Z sapphics like myself. Let me know if there is. I also almost tried Tinder, but I’m not a total babe. I’m a short masc, not muscular (but working on it!), and I have...bottom dysphoria. I don’t have sexy photos of myself — I mean, I have nice photos but they just depict me as sweet, as someone you’d date, and that’s not what I want.
So yeah. Tell me your success stories? Your strategies?
- Chance