Basically what the title says, we are 3 years together now and I do lover her, but there are periods of time where we have to be long distance due to her job, right now we are long distance, and every time she messages me or calls me I get somehow angry, I don't know why, every time I have to interrumpt something that I'm doing to respond to her messages annoys me, it's like I'm constantly getting interrumpted from the real world to pay attention to a mobile phone screen during hours, the last time she called me I just wanted to hang up the phone
Sometimes I tell her that I'm doing things like extra hours on my work or simply going to the gym, but she keeps sending me messages to have a conversation or even calling me, I know she is anxious and she gets worried if I don't answer in 1-2 hours, because yeah, 2 hours is the longest I've gone without responding her, I've never exceeded that limit because obviously I don't want to neglect my partner, and I've never given her reasons to be worried about me.
I have to say that in person everything is great, we have a lot of dates and I enjoy a lot being with her, but when we are long distance it's like we have nothing in common, we talk about our days and that's it, during calls I try to bring up conversation topics but she barely talks about that, it's like she just want to feel I'm there in silence, and I'm okay with that during my free days, but I also have a work, a routine, friends and hobbies, I'm feeling burned out and I don't know how to bring this topic to the conversation with her