u/Chamaeleon_2000

I (M26) feel my relationship with my GF (F25) going downhill. We have been together for 3,5 years and we live together for 1 year. unfortunately im not happy in the relationship and after thinking about it for a long time i decided to break up. Unfortunately, right now in the middle of the semester at Uni we are both busy and we both just havent got the time and mental capacity to break up and move out. The summer is more opportune for that.

Now my question:

Is it unethical to allready know that i wanna break up and wait until it works better with our scedules?

Or should i rather do it as quickly as possible?