18M and 17F. I had my first talking stage with someone just end. We work together, I doubt she’ll see this but if she does randomly have Reddit I really miss you, but you know that. We talked during work and hit it off really well, and then she asked me to go get food after. I had to say no because I didn’t carry money with me that day, but I got her ig and snap from a friend and we started talking. We didn’t have the same interests, she liked musicals for instance and I’m not a big musical guy, and she’s also super religious, I’m not. We talked for about two weeks. We didn’t have the same interests, she liked musicals for instance and I’m not a big musical guy, and she’s also super religious, I’m not. We talked for about two weeks, s working and talk to me. She’s so so pretty, and would talk about me to our coworkers. One of them told me during work that she was literally obsessed with me. I called her pretty, beautiful, literally fell for her. We hung out before work one night and then hung out the next day watching a musical and then going to get food. It wasn’t bad but it wasn’t a great hangout, I was locked in on the musical and she was singing the whole thing so we didn’t really talk to each other, but I still had a fun time. Besides, I didn’t think she really wanted to chat she was singing the whole thing. The next day, I noticed she was less responsive. Then on Monday, the day after that, she told me that because I’m not religious and we don’t have the same interests, it wouldn’t work out in the long run. I proceeded to be super upset, told her I’d just unadd her “so we don’t have to do this” referring to it being awkward, and I confused her and slightly hurt her I think doing that. For about a day or two I was completely heartbroken, and I messaged our mutual friend about it. Two days ago now our friend told me that she was confused why i did that because she wanted to remain friends, after I thought that she just would want nothing to do with me and not talk to me. I apologized and stuff (oh yeah also sent her a giant message saying I missed her and sorry for me not being religious before this) and sent another message where I apologized asking if we could be friends again. I added her back on snap, sent her a stupid TikTok way too soon, then snapped her in the morning, and I’ve been left on read ever since.
I miss her so much, I feel lovebombed and led on. She adored me, and I adored her. I think she lost feelings, but I’m not sure if it was because we didn’t have much in common or what. But at the same time, she’s incredibly nice and I seriously don’t see her lying and leading me on. Plus, she told our friend the same thing she told me about why she ended things. I need help moving on. I feel lonely with a pit inside me. How do I move on? Is it okay if i talk to her at work about it?