Hi. I'm having a situationship with one for the best friends in our small 4 people group. I didn't expect to fall in love with her but here we are. When I confessed her 3 months ago, I was told that she would never choose me even though she might regret it later. But one month ago, she kissed me and our situationship move a step forward. She told me once a while that she couldn't love me yet. But then when I had a family problem, she cried because she thought that in the future, I might choose my family more over her. (she has a trauma from her own family about that). I promised her to protect her no matter what. Then I thought our relationship got better. But then last night, she told me what if she was just toying me. She told me that she just enjoying the sensual moments from me. I pretended I didn't care in front of her but I was deeply hurt from the words like that. But from the bottom of my heart, I feel like I could make her love me since she was very strong with her decision from the start but yet we are sharing kisses right now.
Besides we live in the same dorm, seeing each other faces everyday. Live like a marriage couple. We cook together, we take care of each other, we hepl each other.
From her past relationships, she said she only loved one person and she even knew that she couldn't live with her forever. From that logic, I'm thinking of she might just doesn't want to live with someone forever at all.
And the other aspect is I'm too young for her and naive, she might think I wouldn't face with her. And also our pacing is going quite fast. (Total 4 months/ 2 months before my confession/ 1 month after rejection/ 1 month situationship) My question is "how long should I wait for the clear answer?"
I want to get advice but story time might be best suitable for this.