Is minimal contact normal between dates? Or is it over?
So recently I went on a super long first date with a girl from Hinge, before we met she warned me she’s a bad texter, so she would reply every day or two (tbf I was as well but one time she took a week to reply) however once we moved over to insta, we were talking pretty much everyday leading up to the date (but still very sparsely) and for a few days after.
The date happened and it was genuinely great, loads of chemistry, loads in common, same values, flirting/sexual tension etc. Straight after she messaged me saying she had an amazing time and wanted to see me again very soon, in which I agreed and we planned it together over the next few days.
Now the confusing part:
we haven’t spoken in nearly a week, I was the last person to message, and the second date is meant to be in a couple days.
Before we met, I was absolutely fine with the inconsistent communication because we were still strangers and she owed me nothing.
So now I genuinely can’t tell if this is still just “bad texter but interested” behaviour, or if this is the beginning of a slow fade. What throws me off is that whenever it came to actually seeing me or planning dates, she was always super responsive, eager and proactive with no issues at all… but the second the date was locked in, silence..should I assume it’s over? Or am I doing too much?