Can someone help type me? Im unsure of my tritype fix (I will do ennagram sub type later)
I know I am clearly an E7 (7w6) i was also considering a 3-fix for my tritype (739) but I am still unsure.
For 748: I would consider myself assertive and I like taking charge in a group leader and I like being the captain, I won't mind being in charge and discussing in intellectual discussions. When something icks me or I feel uncomfortable, I would speak up, I dont have a problem speaking up and challenging. I find myself expressive and talks what is on my mind. If something bothers me, I usually dont hesitate (well sometimes i do if im anxious). With people, Im not that shy, especially in preschool i was always talking to people and didnt hesitate to talk to new people. I can be passive and withdrawn but I have a strong competitive side too. In fact, I am pretty competitive and can challenge a viewpoint, or smth. Stuff that stimulates me is competition, rather than drains me. Also, I like the experience of being on stage. If I am on stage, I find it fun and makes me the center in the spotlight. Usually, on stage I dont shy away I open up, talk a lot. Even tho Im kinda quiet when intimidated, I retaliate. I dont accept it when someone steps over my boundary, I hate when im called weak or inferior. One of my pet peeves is someone calling me weak; like a threat. I would probably get annoyed or argue back.
For 749 : When intimidated, I tend to become quiet and withdraw sometimes. I consider myself an introverted extrovert because even though I get energized by people, I need time alone to recharge: Read, draw, listen to music, etc. I tend to have a soft side too, like self-expression and creative stuff and reflection. I feel like a 749 sometimes, soft, sensitive and quiet. But that's stereotypes, and If i were a 749, i would have a strong 8-fix too. I can become melancholic and withdraw not to really keep the peace but to keep to myself and reflect. Sometimes I do take revenge if I am pushed to my limit. I dont know If im a 749 because I have a possible strong 4-fix that mimicks 9-fix behavior.
Also, I would consider myself independent especially in group projects and I wouldn't really describe myself as a people pleaser. I like being independent, it gives me a sense of responsiblity and stability. People pleasing, in my opinion, is uncomfortable, like high Fe users but I do feel comfortable with them. I dont find people pleasing to be a comfort zone and white lies and flattery just to make someone happy. I do that sometimes but I rather just tell the person the truth even though I respect their relationship.
(sorry its a lot to read. Im still trying to type my tritype)
If you have any thoughts, u can dm me or respond. Thank you!