u/Certain_Hyena_5439

I'm going into college and for most of my life i always knew that art is what I've wanted to do. I've been a singer most of my life, i produce and write my own music, play a couple instruments and have worked with people for internships for all sorts of music related things. I paint and have art exhibitions and published poetry too. This isn't to "brag" about everything I've done but more of a way to show how much the arts mean to me.

But recently I've been seeing so many posts and videos of people saying that pursuing your dreams is a waste of time and you should pick a good job and do your passions on the side, but the thing is I have no plan B. there is nothing else I am good enough at or want to do for the rest of my life. But i also get what everyone else is saying with the current job market. My parents are very supportive of me and are all for me going after what I want, but all the stuff I've been hearing has really put me down a little. Any advice?

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u/Certain_Hyena_5439 — 8 days ago

I'm really short, like only around 4'9 short as an adult. I know men prefer shorter girls but I think like cute short is maybe 5-5'2 maybe. it's just kinda awkward being my height since it's hard to hug or kiss standing up. it's just something ive always thought about in the back or my mind, and even though I'm not nearly as insecure as i used to be, i just wanted to ask other people's opinion and experience haha. any fellow short girls care to share what it's like?

tldr- I'm hella short and I'm wondering if or how that matters when you date

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u/Certain_Hyena_5439 — 10 days ago