Hello new to Reddit so sorry if this is messy lol.
I (27F) am going on vacation with my best friend and I went to get a vape for the trip. I brought it home and smoked a little my husband (26M) did as well. For context I have been smoking for a very long time (started when I was very young) and my partner has been for about 7ish years. He decided he wanted to quit, so he did. I joined him a few weeks later. But when I planned this vacation, I knew I was going to want to vape so I got one. Now this morning he asked causally if I was being my vape to work and I told him no, that it was for my cruise. Then he started getting upset with me and telling me that it’s my fault that he is addicted again, that he just got over the cravings and now it’s all started over. We got into an argument for this because he was blaming me for bringing the vape into our home. But I feel that this is not my fault, I didn’t force him to vape. I understand it’s around, but he initially quit while I was still vaping. Am I the asshole?