How do I ( 27M) deal with this girl (28F)?
Hi all,
So I met this girl in October 2025 on a social media app and she DMed me first. She inquired about my age and my work profile ( I work in a PSU and she is pursuing PhD) and asked for my number. We started talking daily and I too started to flirt with her which she didn't tell me to stop. We used to talk daily on WA. Also I wasn't looking for a relationship at that time and I too wanted a timepass to kill my loneliness. She was always the first one to initiate conversation. I barely texted her first. She used to share 100s of reel everyday and moreover send Good morning wishes with her pics. Whenever I asked for a selfie she used to send it.
This went till February 2026 and after that point hettexting frequency ebbed. She rarely texted me first . She even stopped sending me selfies. When I inquired she told she is just busy with her thesis work. I gave her the space but I kinda got into habit of talking her and I started to explore a serious relationship with her because she was too consistent. Although she would dodge my hints but her actions would say otherwise. Now I'm the only one who texts her once in 2 week and although she replies that curiosity about me has died.
Girls like these are the reason I have given upon dating. They will be very intense in the beginning and they leave you at zenith. That's the reason I don't get attached to any girl and just want to be weekend buddies with my talking stages. I don't event express my intentions now kyuki chut#%ya toh katne he wala hai 🥶😭
Anyways would like to know Reddit POV. Is there something left or should I cut my losses? And where did I go wrong?