AITA for breaking up with my bf
Ive been with my ex for 6 years when I just finally had enough and broke up with him. Over the years we’ve had bad patches like any couple but over the past year I just am at a loss to how bad we got and he didn’t seem to notice in the slightest thinking things were going great. I would express how I felt he choose other people over me as I wasn’t a priority in his life, not wanting to spend time with me, his drinking and having terrible communication making me feel alone more so over time and that I wanna be married with a family. He told to me that he felt he didn’t do none of these things despite me being the one to see and experience these things firsthand. He would express how everything was in my head and as time has gone by, it’s getting harder to shake that this isn’t right and I’m not happy. So I came to the decision to break up, now he’s telling me I was the love of his life and that it was the best 6 years of his life. While also telling me that I’m heartless for doing this, even tho I told him 3 weeks ago if he continues to treat me the same I was gone yet now I feel miserable like I’m a bad person.
My parents tell me it’s for the best as they’ve noticed I wasn’t myself for a long time, despite my ex never noticing. So AITA?