toddler prefers dad
her dad and i have been separated since she was 16 months old. she’s lived with me since and we do have a custody agreement where our toddler is with dad three days and mom 4, but within the past 6 months we’ve had a really really hard time with transition from him to me. This past week she’s been beside herself crying and distracting is near impossible. She wants to be with him and has told me that but never with the tears. Also has mentioned how sad he is when she’s not with him and that it makes him cry. I just don’t know what to do and how to help her. Is this normal? has this happened to anyone else?
I also will say i’m not the fun one i’m the baths and doctors and things we need to do one and he is the more yes yes of course one like yes we can stay up or eat this.