Hello! I just turned 40 recently and am based in central Scotland. 173cm (5'8"), facial hair optional, tattoo-free, mono, loyal. Starting by getting to know each other, I am looking for a life-partner who wants children (eventually, when you're sure I am your person and ready). We don’t have to get married if you don’t want to.
A bit of a slightly late bloomer, I have spent years shaping who I am today. It's only the last few years when I've been comfortable with who I am. I have a stable career with my own home, and am financially debt-free. I am East Asian but I don't conform to particular cultural values, e.g. if things work out between us, I expect us to share household duties and childcare equally (I don't have to work full-time).
I am a believer in self-improvement. Not trying to be somebody else, but a better version of myself. I do not look my age, even to other East Asians. My build is average / healthy.
Friends and previous dates have said I am funny. The truth is, I just like to see your smile - naturally, only when you're genuinely happy.
My main hobby is Lindy Hop. Single life has led me to fill my calendar up with Lindy-related activities across the UK and Europe, which I'd happily swap in a heartbeat for couple activities. I also like country walks, castles, galleries, historical sites, trying new things, and the little moments in everyday life.
In my 20s, I was with a serial cheater for nearly 8 years. Since parting ways, I have yet found someone to share life with.
I am looking for a woman with a sense of direction in what she wants in life. It's essential that you also want a life partner and that you want your own children - this is my only bottom line.
It's easy for me to say I am kind, supportive, caring, a good listener, and aims to treat you with love and respect, but will you give me the opportunity to prove it to you? I prefer calls over text, but understand this can take time.
Happy to swap (non-explicit) selfies in DMs.
[If you’re interested in getting to know each other, please include your age, height, location, and some of your life goals. Let's see where we go from there? :) ]