u/CellNo2509

This question sounds ridiculous, and it probably is, but I’ve reached a point in my dating journey where I have no idea how to move forward. Over the last two years, I’ve put myself out there, gone on dates, spent time in public places, talked to girls, but the ones I’ve met have just shown no attraction toward me or have simply rejected me when I tried to take things further.

In the beginning, I was very confident, but that has changed a lot. I think it reached a point where it even negatively affects my ability to date. Unfortunately, I’m also starting to fall into harmful thought patterns, like believing I’m just not good-looking enough. This is mainly because it feels like girls don’t even give my personality a chance, and that people around me seem to get completely different results using the same approach. For them, women actually do stuff to make him pursue them, while I just get ignored.