He does not communicate
I’m asking an honest question and looking for answers: are ALL men emotionally constipated? Are ALL men unable to think on a deeper level and understand the needs and emotions of their wife? Are they unable to understand the difference between accusatory dialogue like, “well i dont like it when you do such and such” versus dialogue talking about each other’s desires and helping understand your wife’s feelings and what you can do to better things in the relationship…. I’m tired of bashing my head against the wall trying to make this man understand that I just want him to sit down and listen like he cares about my feelings and can talk to me on an emotional level about us. He thinks every conversation has to be about throwing swords at each other, whereas I want a conversation about our desires and wants in our marriage and how we could be better for one another and how we can improve ourselves and how much we love the other person…
I want him to stop working at his job, stop doing projects around the house and stop watching Netflix and act like he actually cares that I’m a member of our household.
He’s like a cardboard box.
tl;dr— are ALL men unable to communicate on a deeper level and not just about whether they took the trash out or not?