u/CattleActive6604

Drastic Change in Refractory Period

Hi, I’m looking for a bit of help. I got married not too long ago, and actively started having sex beginning of this year, maybe once or twice a week as we haven’t moved in yet together. That’s besides the point tho. In the beginning, when we first started having sex, I was able to finish, and continue going multiple times. Never had an issue. However, just recently, after I finish the first time, I slowly lose my erection the second Time around, maybe a few minutes in. I understand there’s something called the refractory period, but why am I dealing with this now vs then? I also wonder if it’s because I changed my condoms? I used to use Skyn Elite, but changed to Skyn supreme feel. I don’t know if it’s my diet or what it is that changed, but I just want to know what could it be? Being able to go immediately after with an erection as hard as the first time around was where I was, but slowly losing it while I’m in the act? I just don’t know what it is. It’s a big issue for me especially because I try explaining to my wife that it has nothing to do with my attraction to her, but she doesn’t believe me.

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u/CattleActive6604 — 3 days ago

Performance Issues With Refractory Period

Hi, I’m looking for a bit of help. I got married not too long ago, and actively started having sex beginning of this year, maybe once or twice a week as we haven’t moved in yet together. That’s besides the point tho. In the beginning, when we first started having sex, I was able to finish, and continue going multiple times. Never had an issue. However, just recently, after I finish the first time, I slowly lose my erection the second Time around, maybe a few minutes in. I understand there’s something called the refractory period, but why am I dealing with this now vs then? I also wonder if it’s because I changed my condoms? I used to use Skyn Elite, but changed to Skyn supreme feel. I don’t know if it’s my diet or what it is that changed, but I just want to know what could it be? Being able to go immediately after with an erection as hard as the first time around was where I was, but slowly losing it while I’m in the act? I just don’t know what it is. It’s a big issue for me especially because I try explaining to my wife that it has nothing to do with my attraction to her, but she doesn’t believe me.

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u/CattleActive6604 — 3 days ago