Girls say im handsome but wont date me just because im bald
Hello. Yes this is real and really sad. Im a 22 yo that went bald at 18 due to some health issues and genetics. My health now is fine but the hair wont grow back. Im totally okay with being bald, i like the look. Of course i would prefer myself with hair but i still like myself bald. Before shaving it all, girls were approaching me, i was receiving attention by the girls i liked and i really felt like the man. After shaving my head things went downhill. Im 4 years bald now and i've been struggling with women since day 1. Every time i meet new people, the guys always say, without me literally saying anything about it, that the bald look suits me very well and they wouldnt be able to pull it off like me. They just say it right off the bat when they learn about my age.
The girls on other hand... oh man. Again without me saying anything, most of them compliment me on the bald look, they say that i look really handsome even bald, and that i look better bald than with full hair (when i show them old photos that they asked for). The thing is, that literally every time i like one of these girls and ask a friend to learn if they are interested in me, I ALWAYS get the same response. "He's a good looking guy, great personality, confident, but he's bald... and i cant date a bald guy". That is the message, every time different form. Okay, i get that being bald at 18-22 is really not a great look when everyone has nice haircuts, but why is it such a big deal breaker, even though the girl still finds me attractive? Are they either lying, they dont find me attractive and tell me all that to feel better being bald, or they think other people of their age with judge them? For dating a bald dude at 20-25 yo? I just dont understand, is it something else? They never say that we didnt click or im boring etc, they said that im bald. I even have a nice car, which to some could be considered an advantage, but im still losing.
Very few girls gave me a chance in 4 years, i can count them in 1 hand and i still have fingers left. With them, things ended for different reasons that dont have to do with being bald, thank God. My success rate while being bald is like 10% at best, most of the time i just get rejected for the looks.
What should i do, how can i handle this? Any advice is much appreciated!