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Hi not new here on reddit. I just wanted to ask if my decision was right
Me and my mom have a lot of misunderstanding to the point that I cut her off for a month.
But still she's my mother and no one understands her but only my sisters and I
Just a quick backroud im the oldest. And I grew up with no one telling me if I was doing it right. No parent has supported me since I was 13 years old since now mag 24 in December.
Im currently employed in our province as a callcenter agent but my salary is not that as expected na sobrang laki pero sapat na para mabuhay.
Nakabukod nako with my patner.
Anyways going back.
My mom is 40 and her partner is 35 or 36 something.
She's currently pregnant at this moment and I'm aware that it's very hard to get pregnant at that age
She's asking me if I can pay for her ultrasound but I said NO and I don't have a job at this moment (even though I do have one)
But hear me out guys. I really want to have her ultrasound but the guy doesn't have a job. I always just hang out with my mom since I used to work.
And what he will tell me is that the man is just waiting for work. Like wtf he's not waiting for work. He's the one who's going to work!
I'm still paying my grandmother medication and grocery
I have 9 cats to maintain but only food to
Currently saving for my resignation fund. Planning to resign and look for a job in Manila
Please guys I need an adult insight about this. I'm so confused. I don't know if it was right that I said NO and lied to my mom
The hardship of not having a sister. The hardship of when you have to think. It's tiring. It's draining. You can't be unemployed. I'm better off having a child