My [23F] Boyfriend [20M] can‘t take no for an answer and i don‘t know how to deal with it.
I really love my Boyfriend and so does he, but he can‘t respect my boundaries.
We often talked about the issue but we never reached a solution. It‘s not like he forces Sex upon me, but he makes me feel really bad for saying no and tries to convince me otherwise and ask a 100 of times. He doesn’t stop asking. If I still say no he gets really distant and annoyed and makes jokes that I dont love him anymore.
And as I said, we talked about it, when I say no, I really mean it, but he gets really defensive and tells me that it‘s because of me that he gets that horny. He says when hes away from me he doesnt feel the need to relief himself, only when I‘m with him.
At the start of our relationship we had a lot of sex. It‘s probably because everything was new and exciting, but now that we are together for a couple of years my Libido just isn‘t that high anymore. I love him, but I don‘t have the capacity and I don’t feel like having sex everyday.
And I know it sounds like a huge red flag but I really dont know what to do. I know that he doesn‘t mean it like that… at least i think and hope so.