u/CatCourier

Halo teman-teman.

I am looking for advice for my LDR. A bit of profile. I am a 28 y.o. male, currently on long distance relationship with a 24 y.o. female.

She is currently in Taiwan working and she is my childhood sweetheart. I confessed and we went out together earlier this month. I am currently residing in Indonesia, working white collar job.

So we are having a bit of predicament.

We ran out of things to talk about, and our conversation go shorter and shorter, replies took longer, especially on her side. I tried to initiate an activity together like watching movies together online, or initiating a video call at night. It didnt work that much and we dont have much to talk about.

We already talked about our dreams and aspiration, past events when we were kids, school lifes, current daily activities, and we just sort of ran out of things to talk about.

I have already talked about this issue to her and we both acknowledge this situation. Usually she often initiates a conversation, and her tones are more cheerful than post-dating. Nowadays, if I do not greet her in the morning, she goes radio silent.

I know that she is not working this month (she has not been assigned any shift this month) and I often see her online in instagram, eventhough my chat went unread.

It seems like she is losing interest on me? What can I do about it?

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u/CatCourier — 18 days ago