u/CatAdministrative744

Just saw a hit and run near shubham petrol pump

Some asshole in a navy blue swift just did a hit and run on a man crossing the road.

Unfortunately couldn’t take the picture but his car’s front is severely damaged. If anyone comes across such car please post the picture!!!!

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u/CatAdministrative744 — 5 days ago

Hi there! I’m 30 M single. I know this is a very stupid thing to ask but sometimes i wonder what it feels like to be choosen by your girlfriend/wife. This thought painfully hurts more than i like to admit it.

While I had my fair share of situationships/hookups/talking stages but never gotten the feeling of being desired. Never gotten the feeling that she might be waiting for my text or my text might get a smile on her face. Never had someone say it out loud to me that “i like you and i want you”

In my past either I have expressed my feelings too prematurely or too late for things to materialise. I don’t know if time played its part or just the person didn’t like or desire me enough.

I don’t know what i am doing wrong or i am just not meeting right person. Lately I have been told that showing interest kills the attraction but as a human being my actions do show my interest, while not big gestures but by being consistent, communicating, keeping things playful with little flirts, remembering things that matter to her and stuff like that.

When I thought i had lost all hopes of finding someone good enough, i got my guards up for a long times, almost 2 years but about 4 months back I met someone and my guards naturally went down. She’s someone i have never had in my life, someone who is smart, funny, pretty, seems invested in me, remembers details about me.

About a month and half back i did give her direct hint at where i am standing and she gave me a vague answer. Even after that she still seems invested but i still lack to see the kind of desire you see in someone after talking and investing 5 months and I fear this too might just end like things ended in the past for me.

With my historical and current pattern I fear what if I get into an AM and end up not being desired, like if some can’t express their feelings openly in 5 months, an AM set up gives even lesser time to be invested. I would just be left with this lingering unfulfilled need to be felt desired and will be feeling lonely despite having my partner around.

So my question again, what does it feel like to be desired by your partner ?

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u/CatAdministrative744 — 13 days ago