Nmom is using gifts and my little sister to try and get into my baby's life
In early January I finally told my Nmom that I had a baby and she is not welcome in it's life in any way, shape, or form. This is after months of her harassing my little brother with insistence that I must've had a baby because she dreamt it. (And yes, I did, but she genuinely had no way of knowing at the time as it was before my husband or I had told anyone.)
I have explicitly told her to not contact me and thought I blocked her. (A repeated pattern as every time I block her and my phone updates it unblocks her, no idea why.)
But just now she texted me the following:
"Can (stepdad), (little sister), and I send gifts for you and the baby? I am putting together videos and photo albums for you and copy of the baby book I made when I knew I was having you it goes up to you being 2yrs. I think it would nice for you and your family. Just like my Mom did for me."
I'm not going to lie, this makes me mad. Not only is she using precious memories and photos of me as a child- ones that nobody else has and would be great to pass on- but she's also using my poor stepdad and little sister to try and get to me. I love them both very much and get little-to-no contact with them thanks to her, so it's hitting me right in the heart.
Because of this the smallest, most desperate part of me wants to say yes and just send it to my brother, who is LC/considering NC with her and agreed to this, so he can filter out the bribery, but I know that it's all her way of trying to inch her way into baby and I's lives, something I refuse to allow.
The combination of anger and anxiety this is having me literally has me shaking, and I'm at work where I cannot be like this. If anyone has advice, please let me know.
I'm seriously considering a restraining order because this is the 5th or 6th time in 2 years that she has found a way around me going LC after I told her to stop talking to me, I just don't know if it would go anywhere.