Why not just comment publicly like everyone else? If you’re afraid of it showing up in your post history or something, just make your post history private. I get private messaged replies about posts I’ve made sometimes and I don’t understand why, it’s kind of… creepy?? 😭
This is hardly a problem, more like suffering slightly from success and I’ve never heard of anyone else experiencing this. My boyfriend, after a pretty good amount of trial and error figuring out how, can now make me cum pretty much on demand with 100% success unless I have something going on mentally. This is great and he offers often, but I actually would find it kind of burdensome to take the time to finish every time we have sex (1-4x/week) despite that being a non-negotiable for a lot of other women. This may be because I feel like I have to concentrate a lot to finish and I rarely feel like I absolutely HAVE to, and I also masturbate kind of infrequently now that I am sexually active. I enjoy penetrative sex and giving sexual favors enough that my own orgasm is kind of an afterthought to myself sometimes 😭
Am I just enabling the patriarchy lmfao??? I think it’s significantly better when my partner does it but I still just feel somewhat indifferent about the process as a whole a lot of the time…