aitah relationships
hi, ( my English is not good so i am sorry if i don't make sense)
i really need some advices. i have been in this relationship for last 7 years. we have a huge age gap. that never bothered me. me 34 him 49.
through 7 year i have always i mean always every birthday, every holiday, every Christmas
i have loved and celebrated him by buying him gifts booking hotels spas etc... everything always been more then $1000.
him have never ever bought me anything not for birthday holiday Christmas etc... because he don't believe in them. it never bothered me because he is so good to me he is the best person i have every met. he is kind, supportive, loving, and he loves me loves me a lot even our friends people at work anyone that knows both of us knows how much he loves me.
i wish words could explain how good he is to me. so the $$$$ part never bothered me.
we are good 100% in every other way always. we almost have 0 fights
we both have good jobs. we both make more then enough every month. we don't live together. ( he never asked) he dose not pay for any of my bill.
fast forward 7 years later he give me a very nice gift around $900. i was very happy it meant a lot it really really made me happy.
after that he kept bringing it up few times here and there jokingly
4 days ago we had a small fight stupid one
and goes and throws this in my face saying what about me spending 1000$ on you.
now i have been in and out of hospital for last month for a lot of health issues which i don't want to get into. see my point is he knows i am extremely vulnerable. i cried and went to sleep at his place. because it hurt me the only he did he keeps it over my head.
the next day that stuck with me bothered me a lot
thinking what if this man provide for or could i ever count on him ? so i Zella his $1000
he got mad and give me the silent treatment for 2 days i text him if we were done or he is just playing game.
he replied he will talk later
i don't know what to do.
my brain says walk away for good. my heart says stay
please help
oh he took the $1000 never give it back
and i am sorry for my English :(