Is too soon to cut him off?
I F(25) matched with M(30).We are both speaking with the intention to marry. It was a very good start we spoke a lot about our deal breakers what we are looking for etc… the most important questions to establish whether this is something worth investing.
If been 2 months now we are ldr in different countries He expressed to me after a month of speaking that he likes talking to me and he sees this progressing and that can we further discuss our future which I then suggested that this is perfect over the phone. We planned it was good but I noticed the first phone call he was late like 25 minutes and he didn’t say anything and I didn’t address again second call he was late again and the third call I didn’t give him a time just to see what he would he called very late and as of late we shared our schedules and picked a date and the call never came. I like what he has said so far but in terms of actions other than this call situations there hasn’t been anything that I am not happy with.
I am seeking advice on how to go about addressing this over text without it being very confrontational as I am someone who is very clear cut when it comes to communication and I haven’t problem telling you how I feel.
in terms of my feelings I am not obsessed or in love with the guy. I like what he is SAYING so far but obvs gotta judge his actions too but it hurt a lot more than I taught the fact that he didn’t call when he said he would and there was no explanation.