u/CaregiverAny1236

First off, I can be very insecure I’ve dealt with cheating in the past and definitely on high alert when it comes to texts to other women. My boyfriend is very kind and good hearted, he received a text from an ex and he answered it. He did tell her he has a girlfriend and is in a happy relationship but he got the text a month ago and I just found out. I got extremely upset and erratic and ended up texting his ex asking if I have anything to worry about. I was in a state of mania and I am now very regretful of sending that message. I want my boyfriend and I to work and I am working through my trust issues and he has been very patient with me but I just feel so uneasy sending that message and keep over thinking about it, I don’t want it consuming my thoughts. I guess I am just I need of advice or input on the situation? I appreciate it.