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Current nursing students and nurses:

How much did/does your program actually talk about the mental/emotional toll of nursing?

Not just burnout in a general sense, but the reality of witnessing suffering, death, grief, trauma, angry families, moral distress, etc.

Were you given any meaningful mental health resources or emotional preparation for that part of the job?

I’m a former nurse, and looking back, I feel like we were taught how to keep patients alive, but not necessarily how to emotionally process everything we carry afterward.

I’m genuinely curious what nursing education looks like now and whether this conversation is happening more openly.

Former nurse here and something I’ve been thinking about lately

Do you talk to your significant other, roommate, friends, or family about what you see during your shifts?

I don’t necessarily mean venting about coworkers or a hard day. I mean the heavier stuff. The things you carry home after witnessing people suffer, die, grieve, spiral, survive, etc.

Do you talk about it openly?
Do you avoid talking about it?
Do you feel like non-healthcare people understand it?
Has it affected your relationships at all?

I think a lot of nurses carry far more than people realize, and I’m genuinely curious how others navigate that part of the job.