u/Careful_Macaroon8967

Hi everyone, I'd like to thank everyone for advice from last August regarding Darrin. I know it's been 9 months since I last posted, but I took some advice from all the comments. If anyone hasn't followed or forgot from then, here's the like to the original post to what I had said: https://www.reddit.com/r/EntitledPeople/comments/1mm31cv/my_narcissistic_exteammate_has_made_comments/

Anyways, back to the update. Darrin was still trying to reach out to me despite cutting ties with him before I created my original post. In late March, I unblocked his number and told him the following message, "Hey Darrin, I'd like to inform you that I am no longer interested in having a friendship with you. Your sexist comments towards me have really bothered me and it affected my self esteem. I would like for you to respect my wishes moving forward." I reblocked him and checked to see if he had replied not long after I got out of the shower. I was left on read, so I'm guessing he saw it. I (originally) thought that was the end of it. I was very wrong. Today, May 4th, Darrin sent me a follow request on Instagram.

After I returned home tonight, I spoke to Adam about everything and added that I had cut ties with him much before tonight. At that time, I hadn't responded to Darrin's follow request because I needed to talk to Adam about it. He advised me to block him and now he's planning on telling Darrin to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with him. So right now, I'm laying in bed, getting ready to fall asleep.

I'm not 100% positive if this is going to be the only update I have regarding this, but I don't know. I'm preparing for the possibility of another update in the coming weeks because I'm going to state for track and field, which is from May 29-31. Thank you for taking the time to see this.

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u/Careful_Macaroon8967 — 10 days ago