AITJ for being irritated at the constant questioning over benign comments?
Me NB40 other person Jay NB40. We have a shared child, Jay takes our child Saturday to Sunday. I wanted to make sure Jay does not cancel on the date a band i want to see is performing. I already missed them during Easter as Jay wouldn't tell me exact dates for our child staying with them till last minute (day before) a common occurrence.
This is a consistent pattern of communication and I'm so tired of it, I mentioned via text to Jay I was going to see Moonwalker to secure the date - texts attached, I am green and Jay is white.
Jay consistently questions everything I've ever said. The most innocent comment from me and it's hours long and back and forth where Jay tries to show how I'm wrong. (Thats what it appears to me) - in person Jay used to google anything I said for ages trying to find something to show I'm wrong. From a song being performed by a band or solo artists to how much laundry detergent to use - despite Jay never using the washing machine.
I have came to the conclusion Jay is just a rubbish person who is crap at conversation and cannot accept being 100% wrong. Who asks someone over and over if they are sure they are going to see a band and not a solo artist. Who writes the youtube tag "moonwalkerbandofficial" and dismisses the word "band" in the tag just to question me if I'm sure they are a band.
Ultimately Jay could Google anything Jay wants - I don't need to be interrogated over bands, laundry detergent, the benefits of baby head massage, whether or not Fortnight was an indie original....all easily googled but instead Jay argues at you - you have to bring him proof. You have to Google and prove something fucking stupid like "moon walker is a band"
I'm really sick of all the Jay's in the world - I've noticed as well this attitude and energy is never directed at cis presenting men or older women - they get the "respectful" version of Jay, apart from Jays mum of course.
Is it me thats the issue? I already interact with Jay as minimally as possible. I suppose I should just ignore Jay when the nonsense starts. But objectively am I the problem - is it me?
TD;LR Jay asks repeatedly for over an hour if I'm sure "Moonwalker is a band". I'm tweaking tf out over it.