u/Capital_Panda2815

I’m stuck in a confusing situation.

My family found a rishta — he’s stable, earns well (around 4L inr rental income), and is genuinely “shareef” with a clean background. Basically everything looks perfect on paper.

But there’s also someone at my workplace who truly loves me. He cares deeply and would do anything for me, but he’s not financially stable right now.

I feel like I’m choosing between a secure future and real love. I believe we could build something stable together over time, but it’s still a risk.

I don’t know what to choose — comfort or connection.

TL;DR: Choosing between a financially stable arranged marriage match and someone who truly loves me but isn’t stable yet. Not sure if I should pick security or love.