I’m F(27) my partner M(30) and we’ve been together for 8 months but have been best friends for more than 3 years.
Since the moment we got together we’ve talked about how much we want to have kids. We don’t live together but he’s at my house pretty much 24/7.
I found out I was pregnant and he doesn’t want it. He says he loves me but he’s scared to be a parent. I want to have the child but I don’t want to have it unless both of us want it so naturally I’m going to have an abortion.
I can’t help but feel lied to or at the very least misled my this man who constantly talks about how we’re a family and calls me the love of his life. We both have stable jobs and this child was made out of love (or so I thought). There’s no real reason to not have it. I feel incredible down and I’m starting to resent him for not stepping up.
Can our relations actually survive this? He hasn’t even apologised for making me do this, I’m going through an absolute turmoil and having panic attacks, I can’t sleep I’m pretty much crying all the time cause I feel so guilty for having to have an abortion.