Problem/Goal: As the title says.
Context: Mayroon akong classmate who I consider as a friend of mine, we would hang out each other and we had a great time together, pero one day, as I was walking back home, I saw one of their friend group told them "oy yung bestfriend mo ohhh", I saw my old classmate and hang out with their friend group, I didn't mind it. But it felt offensive, I shrugged it off because it could just be my past bad relationships with other people the reason why I'm feeling like this. Until noong may nakita ako ng reels sa IG na nagsabi, "sinasabihan namin na "oh yung bestfriend mo kapag ayaw namin"" to which I'm worried that it might be the case.
Previous attempts: I asked my parents about it and they said it's nothing, not that they're invalidating me, it's just they said that it's a positive expression, to which I doubt it