Hi , I'm not a student at your school in fact I've only ever been here to visit friends that go here and honestly I'm terrified to even try posting this here but I really don't know what else to do which is why I've turned to this thread. I'm struggling with something a fellow student of yours did to me. Last year within the span of 3 months a psychology major ( a senior) at your school both physically and sexually assaulted me and yes I 100% should have reported it to the police but at the time I was dating this person so I had an extremely difficult time processing what was done to me without my consent. I've tried really hard over the past few months to accept and kind of "move on" from what happened but I literally can't , it doesnt matter what I do or how I try and press forward it just never goes away and I can't help but feel so angry about that. There he is walking amongst the halls of your school , getting ready to graduate , feeling fucking great about himself , ready to move into this new chapter of his life when I'm forever stuck in time for what he did , because of what he took from me and I genuinely just can't let it go. I don't know how to , I genuinely fucking hate him with everything I am and I know this makes me bitter and probably insane but I can't stand the thought that he's about to get away with everything. While I know it's probably much too late to make some kind fo report but does anyone have any advice on how to handle this kind of situation? is it too late to file a police report ? is there some way that I can report him to a school board or something? I've never been in this type of situation and I really don't feel comfortable asking the people around me but please if anyone us reading this and knows what I should do , please reach out. Also I don't know if this helps at all but he has fully admitted to what he's done .
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