My mom has this awful habit where she walks around the house naked and uses the toilet with the door open. This means that every time she goes to the toilet I can hear every little sound of her peeing, farting, groaning and shitting. I have always found this extremely disturbing and she KNOWS this. Of course she has always ignored me and doesn't understand why it upsets me so much. (She is incapable of respecting boundaries or considering how her actions affect others.)
In the last few weeks I've reached my breaking point and I've started yelling at her to have some decency anytime I catch her doing it. I know this is bad, I never yell at anyone else, but her actions make me feel vulnerable and powerless and I yell because I feel like I have no other way to defend myself or get her to listen to me.
My dad pretty much just laughs off her behaviour and doesn't care about how it makes me feel, which makes me feel even more disgusted.
This is seriously messing with my mental health and I just wish I was able to feel comfortable in my own home. I'm old enough to move out (and have before... one day she turned up at my door out of nowhere) but the situation regarding that is complicated.