u/CampaignConscious383

Hey M,35 here. To start it’s been years since I’ve been interested in dating. Got out of a relationship a few years ago and just recently I found a girl that I thought we had a lot in common. Our love for Star Wars, ATHF, and our views on the world and the greater life questions. One day she came to me about her boyfriend at the time and she confided in me a lot. She ended up leaving him. Unfortunately by the time I worked up the courage to ask her out another man beat me to it. I don’t think they are dating or anything more than a rebound thing. One day while I was a little intoxicated I spilled my guts. Told her how I felt. She’s become kind of distance but we still talk. So do you think I messed it up?