relationship advice - should we move to poland?
my bf (23) and i (23) have been dating for 3 years. we have recently started talking about the future as we want to get married and have children in 1.5-2 years time. he really wants to move to poland because he believes it would offer more opportunities for our future family + he also really likes how they predominantly have Christian values compared to where we live now (australia) which has taken such a political downturn that it’s not the best place to raise our children.
however, moving to poland means leaving everything behind and my family who i am very close to, whereas he doesn’t really have any emotional attachment to this country. he really hates living here, whereas i quite like it as i moved from a third world country. is moving
a good idea in this political/economic landscape? is there a middle ground or are we incompatible? we have talked about this topic several times and have come up with nothing as a mid ground where are both happy with the outcome.
for context, neither him or i have polish roots, but he does have a european passport.
EDIT: he is willing to stay where we live now, however i just don’t want to be the main reason that forces him to stay in a place he hates and potentially lead to resentment later down the track.