I haven't read any court docs yet. I think this is an interesting case. Let's discuss. Please be respectful. This is not a post to hate on Taylor or for people to hate on anyone for commenting their opinion. Play nice everyone 🫶❤️✌️
I would love to see the sequel. However, if Justin allows Blake to be in the sequel, I can't watch it. He wouldn't be that dumb would he? I hope not.
If the only way for you to accept that I have left is for you to think I found someone, go ahead. Whatever helps you sleep it night. It couldn't possibly be because I am finally standing up for myself, knowing what I deserve, not only as a wife, but as a human being. I couldn't possibly have been the drinking, the verbal abuse, the disrespect, your lack of empathy, all the lies, all the broken promises, or your lack of accountability....
You ruined our lives. We got evicted. I'm in debt because I havent been able to pay bills in months because of all of this. You get off scot free because everything was in my name. Your credit isn't effected. Mine is ruined. And you will never help me fight my way out of this. It’s all on me.
There will never be a someone else. I am broken. No man deserves the burden of the shattered glass that is me. And I am completely ok with that. Because I AM strong enough to be on my own. My happiness does not depend on another person. I refuse to ever allow someone else to bring me down the way you have. You were nothing when we met. And against my better judgement, I believed in you, that you would be something one day. And here we are, just as we began. You have no job, no money, nothing but the truck you are living in. I will survive. I always do.
It's laughable that instead of taking accountability for your actions, you are still trying to show me how good of a husband you were. Loyal, yes, you never cheated. You took care of your family? How is losing your job, hiding it, pretending to go to work and drinking all day instead, taking care of your family? You showed me love everyday? At the same time as you called me fat, disgusting, whore, bitch... That's showing me love everyday? Telling me to to off myself, that's love? You are delusional.
Sorry this time it's not working. That's why i cut all contact. I won't give you the chance to manipulate me anymore. I'm not giving you the chance to make your threats to harm yourself so I stay this time. I have blocked you everywhere I can think of... but the email slipped by me. So now, yep, blocked there too. You will never get another response out of me. I dont care about your pain. I AM FINALLY CARING ABOUT ME.
At what point in recovery do they take accountability? That is the biggest problem I am having. My husband hit rock bottom and took our family with him. We got evicted. I moved out and he is now in a sober house. At first I thought we might be able to work things out, but he still blames me for his drinking. He also does not acknowledge what he did to us financially and how all of that affected our relationship. He loves to tell me how loyal of a man he was to me, and how good of a husband he was. But he wasn't. He was a very bad husband and father. He still cant be accountable for everything that has happened. Will that ever come?
I left my husband in January. He was a recovering alcoholic when we met. He had been sober a few years. About a year into our relationship, he relapsed. We stayed together together. When he is sober, he's a great man. A kind man. A loving man. When he relapsed, he started accusing me of cheating, going through my phone, getting mad about text conversations I was having with my family. But we stayed together because I knew there was a good man in there somewhere. He proposed and I told him the only way I would marry him is if he got sober. And he did. And we got married. But the relationship never went back to the way it was before his relapse. I held on thinking it would change. But over the years he became very possessive, verbally abusive, always accusing me of talking to other people behind his back. Our relationship became very toxic. And the whole time I was waiting for it to go back to the way it was. But it never did. We both have PTSD from childhood abuse. We both have pretty severe mental health issues. He is bipolar. I have severe depression. That was kind if what brought us together. Because we understood each other, what the other person was going through. That slowly started to change also. He woukd out me down when I had anxiety, call me weak, tell me to kill myself. Ive never been suicidal, just super depressed. I went inpatient twice during our, not because I was suicidal, but because I felt like dieing would be the only way to make the pain stop. Prior to meeting my husband, I was in a physically abusive relationship, that ended with my ex being arrested and convicted of holding me hostage. So I had sone PTSD from that too. We argued one night and he had a very bad temper, even when he was sober, and he got in my face and screamed at me to hit him, so I did. And my wedding ring scratched face. He called the cops and I got arrested. I was so disappointed in myself and I had a hard time accepting what I had done. So I went into the hospital again and after I completed a 3 week partial hospitalization program where I went to therapy and group therapy all day. After that, I was doing so much better mentally. I went back to work and found a job that I love. When I started doing better, he started slipping and ended up relapsing. It was bad. He stopped working. We got evicted. I moved into a new place without him. So muched happened during his relapse, I could write a book. On Christmas he went to the hospital and detoxed. He got sober, and moved into an Oxford house. I thought, he is my husband, if he is sober, we can try to fix this. But we can't. Because even when he is sober, he's a toxic, manipulative person. I had to learn it the hard way. He still doesnt trust me, still calls me names like fat, ugly, disgusting, whore to name a few. Finally about 2 weeks ago, I cut off all contact. Blocked his number, turned off my location share. But its so hard. I dont have friends because I pushed them all away. I pushed my family away too. Now I'm alone and have no one to talk to. But I feel better. Even though I'm sad and lonely. I have inner peace that I haven't had for a long time. Then today I got an email from him. I know its his way of manipulating me, trying to get me to feel bad for him. I want to respond so bad. There are so many things I need to say that haven't been said. But I know I need to stop. To stay away, for my own peace. So instead of responding to him, I am here, trying not to respond.