My husband of 3 years together almost 8 had a baby 5 months ago. We like to drink but he goes too far. He was drunk at my delivery and in the hospital after I got a magnesium drip and had an emergency C section. He has been blackout drunk multiple weekends since we brought her home. I am also the breadwinner and I make more money than him. I offered to pay 60% of the bills recently to make things more fair so that he has more fun money. I own a business and offered to cut back hours so that we could have more family time so I could support him with cooking meals so he doesn’t have to cook dinner when he comes home.
The most recent blackout was last weekend. I’ve tried so hard all week to forgive him and move on. I can see that he’s regretful. Criticism from his family this week regarding our Child And me researching all week to try to put her on a schedule to help her have more stable day… today was the first day. I explained the process to him…put her down around 2:30 PM. I explained to him that she’s going to cry because this is a new process… less than an hour later I go back to check on her within the recommended interval of 10 minutes and he has her out of the crib and in our bedroom playing with her. I lost my shit. He tells me I can’t expect him to remember things when I tell him for the first time even if it’s within one hour. He says I expect too much.
I am so livid and done. He even asked me for sex tonight and I just can’t get over how unthoughtful he is of me.
AITAH?
Tl;dr my husbands a drunk asshole