u/CallMeDoomSlayer

This isn’t a traditional dating post it’s just more of an observation I’m making and I wonder if anyone else has felt the same.

So I’m a 28M just on Hinge looking around, and it dawned on me that nearly all the women on there have these photos of them at bars, clubs, concerts, sports games all that stuff. And to be honest I’m not really a fan of any of that stuff. So I swipe left a lot. You’d never find me dead or alive at a club especially.

But it got me thinking “Wow I’m actually a really boring person”. I don’t go out after work, or much on the weekends. I kind of exist to work really and even on my free time it’s usually just visiting friends places or families places. I don’t actually do much of anything. It’s either all of that or I’m at my apartment. Funny enough I do live directly in the heart of of a very bustling city, but none of it appeals to me whatsoever.

I’m starting to think that because I don’t like 95% of the stuff that most women my age do, is gonna severely hinder me in meeting someone. I’m not really up for “branching out of my comfort zone” I mean I know I’m not gonna like any of the stuff. I guess it sucks because I haven’t met a woman like me at all. And I don’t want to date someone who wants to go out every night, and honestly I wouldn’t want someone who does do that to date me either. It’d be like dogshit mixed with paprika 😂.

Has anyone else ever come to this realization about themselves and the peers around them?