No not boy moding, just what I look like in a hoodie and in studio mode.
How many of you changed careers?
I was a mobile heavy equipment technician before and before that an equipment designer, but now I do my passion and that’s art.
Did anyone else drastically change careers?
It took a long time to come to terms with being trans and not every single moment thinking “am I being feminine enough.” Always makeup, always done to the nines.
One day I realized being trans has nothing to do with how I look or am I stealth. I mean ya who wouldn’t want to look like Bosco✨, but it’s not going to be a reality for many of us, and it’s no reason to think you can’t transition. It’s all about accepting who you are. You have to do that for you, never mind everyone else accepting you, do you accept you, all of you just as you are staring at yourself in the mirror after your shower? Do you accept her for who she is, or are you picking her apart and hiding because you don’t look the part in your head?
I know. I was there too. I almost gave up a couple times.
The changes happen, slowly. The money may come for surgeries or it may not. I know that is a dream for me for FFS and breast aug, but it may never happen or it will. Regardless I am more than enough just as I am right here, right now.
You have to love yourself first💋