So I(33m) walk into the kitchen where my wife(33f) is cooking and I just so happen to see my stepdaughters new Apple Watch. The first thing I see is 3 deep scratches on the face of the watch. I say to my wife “damn this has a big ass scratch in it”, and she got all crazy saying I only see the negative in things. I’m like wtf? How is that negative I just made a statement about what I happened to see. Just like if I picked up somebody’s phone and there was a huge crack in it I would be like “ damn look at the big ass crack” like any other normal person. According to her most people don’t think like that and I’m just negative. I don’t understand this at all. What do you guys think? Oh yeah she brought up another incident the other night where we were watching a show on tv an the lady on the tv talking had a huge mole on the side of her face by her eye and I pointed it out. She said see you always just see the negative in things because she didn’t even notice her mole. I’m like wtf lol all I did was point it out.
TL;DR my wife thinks I see the negative in things when I think I just notice things and it’s not necessarily negative or a bad thing.